Think its a good idea to “battle it out” in court when you’re getting a divorce? “We’ll let the Judge decide” can be the most expensive words you ever utter. I’m not just talking about money here, although it will cost plenty to prove you are right. Don’t discount the heavy emotional and psychological toll going to divorce court will take on you and your family.

Here are some questions to ask before you hire a high-powered divorce lawyer to go to war:

• How can you keep from getting “screwed” in your divorce?
• How can you tell if your lawyer is working for you or for their own bank account?
• How can you get the divorce done without scarring your kids for life?
• Do you know why betting on a Judge’s decision can be worse than a bad night in Vegas?

A good Divorce Mediator can answer these questions for you, and more. It’s time for you to take control of your life, and your divorce. Work it out, from splitting your property, to figuring out divorce child custody - or pay the price!