What would you like your relationship with your ex-partner to look like? Have you ever thought about it?

How can you get what you want, if you don’t know what you want?

Most people spend their time thinking about what they don’t want, rather than what they do want. You know that what you focus on expands.

How about sitting down and figuring out what your perfect relationship with your ex-partner would look like? If what you are thinking is, “Nothing! I don’t want a thing to do with them, ever again!”, think again. How likely is that to happen, when you have kids? And you won’t be able to move forward, until you have forgiven - them and yourself.

So think about that perfect relationship with your soon-to-be-ex, or ex. Think about it every day. Feel how great it would feel, for yourselves, your families and mutual friends, as if it had already happened. Share these inspired ideas with your ex.

Watch in amazement how quickly things change for the better as you see yourselves working together as a team, to create your perfect co-parenting relationship.

It’s simple. Focus on what you want, not on what you don’t want.

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